What Are Your Must Haves in a Relationship???

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Permalink Reply by Chocolate on September 17, 2008 at 9:19am

MY ABSOLUTE NON-NEGOTIABLES IN A RELATIONSHIP IS #1 TRUST BCUZ WITHOUT TRUST U DON'T HAVE A RELATIONSHIP! COMMUNICATION & RESPECT RUNS VERY CLOSE WITH THE TRUST FACTOR! IT'S BEEN MY EXPERIENCE IF U HAVE THESE 3 IN UR ARSENAL EVERYTHING ELSE WILL FALL N2 PLACE!

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Permalink Reply by THE BOSS on September 17, 2008 at 1:46pm

One Thing That is Without A Doubt a Non-Negotiable With Me is Disloyalty If I'm Gonna Ride For You I Expect You To Do The Same For Me.

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Permalink Reply by Lil' Unique on September 17, 2008 at 1:48pm

Everything that's been said so far are definite non-negotiables...but I really need to add a sense of humor to the list as well. If a dude can't make me laugh, then there's a big problem right there. That may be just me, but I consider it a requirement.

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Permalink Reply by THE BOSS on September 19, 2008 at 3:32pm

Well Another Non Negotiable For Me in a Relationship is a Woman Who Smokes *lol* I Always Said No Matter How Fine You May Be, If I See You Whip Out a Cancer Stick, You've Automatically Lost Some Major Points With Me, But One Big Must Have For Me Is a Woman With a Wonderful Sense of Humor and Very Spontaneous

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Permalink Reply by Lil' Unique on September 19, 2008 at 3:54pm

Oh, I forgot that one...I can't stand smokers either, and I mean any kind...doesn't matter if it's cigarettes, blacks, weed (especially weed), I don't like being around it!!!

Oh, another non-negotiable for me is that he has to love God...or he can't love me!!!!

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Permalink Reply by Stall on September 19, 2008 at 4:39pm

I second that

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Permalink Reply by THE BOSS on September 19, 2008 at 5:13pm

ok now what about this non-negotiable, for me is a woman who doesn't keep herself together is not a good look ya know and what i Mean By That is, a woman who takes pride in her appearence

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Permalink Reply by Lil' Unique on September 19, 2008 at 5:27pm

You can't date anybody who's gonna slouchy about their looks...that's a definite no-no.

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Permalink Reply by Enoch 7th Prophet on September 26, 2008 at 4:30pm

I will return to give my answer .....Stay Tone!!

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Permalink Reply by Chocolate on September 26, 2008 at 9:12am

AN ABSOLUTE NON-NEGOTIABLE IS A MAN THAT LIE'S WHICH GOES ALONG WITH THE TRUST ISSUE. I CAN'T STAND A LIAR!!!! IF U LIE U WILL CHEAT & IF U CHEAT U WILL STEAL!!!! ALSO U SHOULD NEVER HAVE 2 FIND OUT ABOUT AN ISSUE 2ND HAND, IF THE PERSON IS REALLY ABOUT HIS OR HER BUSINESS U WILL KNOW ABOUT THE ISSUE B4 IT COMES 2 SURFACE!!!!

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